Podcast #27 - Divorced Dad Minute - When it’s Really Not Going Well – Stop Everything And Reassess

The following is not legal advice

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Sometimes it feels like fathers have no rights whatsoever: Ever get the feeling as a divorced dad that you are spinning your wheels in Family Court? Do you feel like you are losing ground, things are getting worse instead of better? Sometimes a case loses momentum, traction and acceleration.

Perhaps it is time to ask yourself - When is the last time I have sat down to do a Cost Benefit Analysis? How much pain, for how much gain?

When it comes to custody, access and/or child support issues have you achieved everything possible this go-round in Family Court?

Sometimes a case has a limited shelf-life. Sometimes it is time to stop. Sometimes that is the very best move to make, because all the problems and weaknesses in your case that happen before a Court order is granted go away after a final order. That’s because Judge’s don’t look behind orders, they go forward from them.

However sometimes it is time to ADJUST. To do things differently.

The point is this: When it's really not going well, stop everything and reassess: Whether it be you're having a hard time finding your lawyer or you're having a hard time with a particular judge or you're having a hard time in your negotiation, what do you think you ought to do? First of all, stop everything. Reassess things.  Also, you've got to continue to believe that there is a solution.  Start thinking positively.

Attitude is 99% of what wins and loses a case for divorced dads. The cases that have the most successful outcomes for the divorced dads we’ve worked with, in every single one, ATTITUDE has been the one thing that has made all the difference in the world in turning a losing case into a winning one.

THEREFORE - Don't reinvent the wheel. Do what works, lose what doesn't. That is the “golden rule” of success when you are a divorced dad.

Listen to today's Divorced Dad Minute to learn how….come back often for new insights on how you can begin turning your situation around today.

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