Podcast #6 - Divorced Dad Minute - Planning With The End Result In Mind

The following is not legal advice

 

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All successful strategies begin with knowing what it is that you exactly what it is that you want. Successful fathers are quick to decide what they want and are slow to change their minds. This is the "proven strategy" of today's most successful people in all walks of life. You'll need to consider and apply that thinking in all custody, access, and child support matters.

This is the basis of all divorce management strategy.

Focusing solely on the exercise of "fathers rights" will only harm Your chances of success. It's about the rights of your child to have their father deeply embedded as a part of their life. It is not about your rights to be their father - the law in most locations not constructed to uphold fathers rights, but rather the rights of the child. That is the more persuasive approach in Family Court

As a separated and/or divorced dad who is seeking custody, access, in Family Court, and/or to reduce your child support spousal support/alimony payments to reflect actual income, you must remain focused on working your divorce management Plan. You must be insightful enough to adjust it as necessary to achieve your outcome.

You must lose any hint of emotional instability. Lose your cynicism, anger, bitterness and other negative emotions that only tend to portray and prove you to be the angry man your ex-wife and her lawyer are claiming you to be.

To improve your success rate, you must "show up" for the "game". What this means is you must work at it, go to visit Family Court as if you are on a field trip, observing how Family Court Judges decide custody, access, and child support matters. "Learning the ropes" through attending at Family Court will help clarify what's possible.

You'll find that preparation is the key ingredient to all success in Family Court.

Watching the action in Family Court is how you will find the best lawyers, fathers that are successful and strategies that will be most helpful to resolving your situation. But above all…you must focus on your attitude. Because that's one of the prime character traits Judges observe when people are before them in Family Court.

Be the good man you claim to be - a man of peace. "Wage Peace" on behalf of your children's rights to family; train yourself and rehearse for success.

Your children are worth it.

Custody for fathers is possible.  We've helped countless dads to improve their situation and/or win in Family Court on behalf of their children when the situation requires it. Listen to today's Divorced Dad Minute to learn how….come back often for new insights on how you can begin turning your situation around today.

Danny Guspie & Heidi Nabert
The Dynamic Divorce Duo