Podcast #12 - Divorced Dad Minute - Mentoring: Finding Successful Divorced Dads in Family Court

The following is not legal advice

 

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How do your Reach your Goals In Family Court? The answer is simple: Mentoring: Find a Successful Divorced Dads in Family Court. So what is mentoring?

Mentoring is the secret that always leads to success. Divorced dads with custody, access / child visitation, and child support issues need every advantage they can find when facing Family Court difficulties.

If you want to learn the shortcuts, stay on track and not reinvent the wheel finding a mentor is the quickest route to success. The best and easiest place to find such fathers is Family Court. You will see three general groups of divorced dads who face custody, access / child visitation, and child support issues.

Group One: Those who are losing. You can learn a lot by watching this group. Don't do what they are doing! Anything you do, that resembles what they do, STOP IT NOW. While it is easy to sympathize with these divorced dads, it is deadly to emulate them. Unless of course you don't care about the results you will get in Family Court.

Group Two: The Struggling Majority - Those who are struggling in Family Court with custody, access / child visitation, and child support issues. Again, it is deadly to emulate them. Unless of course you don't care about the results you will get in Family Court. Watch what works for this group and only apply those consistently proven strategies that you've seen work before a particular Family Court Judge consistently.

Group Three: Consistent Winners. You will have to spend considerable time in Family Court to find these divorced dads, but when you do you should be thinking "Eureka! My many hours of effort have finally paid off. I have finally found the vein of gold!" These divorced dads are very difficult to find because they only represent about 5-10% of all divorced dads.

But the good news is those numbers are climbing. In Canada that number is around 19%. Those are your odds of finding a successful divorced dad in your local Family Court. And the odds are those numbers are similar worldwide. That number represents the number of divorced dads heading a single family home in Canada.

And guess what? Most of them are doing so with a Family Court order.

So now you have the beginnings of a divorce management plan, based upon a model of proven success. Follow the trail now to find the good lawyers, custody assessors, social workers and other legal/social work/psychological professionals you may need on your team when you face custody, access / child visitation, and child support issues in Family Court.

Remember: Every successful person can benefit from mentoring.  Find successful dads in family court and make distinctions between fathers.  You can find a successful father, but is he successful in the thing that you are looking to do? That's what you are looking for.

For example,  maybe you've got a child support issue or an access or visitation issue, you need to find somebody who's got that kind of success. If you go and you're looking for successful dads and you just go find one who is successful in child support, but you've got a custody and access issue, it's not going to work that way.

Find a divorced dad who's having success in the same area you want to be successful in at Family Court. Concentrate your search efforts to find what you're looking for. Find a divorced dad who's solved the same exact problem you have. You will have found the trail to everything else you'll need.

Plus you won't be losing or struggling anymore, because you are not reinventing the wheel. You are following in the footsteps of successful divorced dads, adapting what they teach you through perseverance, observing and measuring your results. You will be amazed at how things begin changing when you apply this approach to your Family Court matter.

Let us know about your progress. Join us on our weekly teleseminar / webcast training call Divorced Dad Weekly where we go into more depth on these concepts.

Listen to today's Divorced Dad Minute to learn how….come back often for new insights on how you can begin turning your situation around today.

Danny Guspie & Heidi Nabert
The Dynamic Divorce Duo

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