Podcast #11 - Divorced Dad Minute - How to Reach your Goals - Find A Successful Divorced Dad

The following is not legal advice

 

 Divorced Dad Minute # 11 - "How to Reach your Goals - Find A Successful Divorced Dad": Play Now | Play in Popup | Downloads 1529

So, how do you reach your goals if you are a divorced dad in Family Court?  Go to the source - Family Court. Watch, observe and learn. Find a successful father using this method. It will take time, but if you persist, you will find that model of success, and most likely find the right lawyer a lot sooner.  If you want to learn how to do anything in life, you need to find yourself someone who's already done it.  Don't you agree?

You need a mentor. A divorced dad who is already winning his case; to learn what is working for him, who his lawyer is, how he is preparing, what he is studying, and how he rehearses for success. You absolutely need to go into Family Court NOW and watch what's going on. Success just doesn't turn up: IT IS CREATED step by step, by following the paln that has worked for others. The proven system will always beat the one you make up as you go along.

Don't "wing it" in Family Court, unless you want to lose BIG TIME.

GO NOW and FIND that father who's winning in Family Court - Then go take him out for a coffee and see what he has to say. Better yet buy him dinner, befriend him, pick his brain and implement what he's doing. Don't bother trying to reinvent the wheel, do what works for other divorced dads, find the right metor, coach, guide, information, lawyer, strategies, tactics, negotiation and communication skills. Observe how Family Court Judges decide things.

These actions are amongst the most powerful strategies in any of life's most difficult situations. This ACTION PLAN always lead to positive solutions. It's work, and takes some time. But it is always worth it in the end.

REMEMBER You can moan and groan about how unfair it is and do the same things again and again that put you in a miserable psoition, or you can try something that has been proven to work for successful people from all walks of life. Ask yourself this: When you look back in 20 years from today, how did it all work out for you? What do you dream of? How did you do it?

My bet is it worked out just GREAT.

Not perfect, but GREAT, because you took the time to read this entry in Divorced Dad Minute, AND more importantly, you made time to think about, design and implement a divorce management plan that incorporated the skills you are learning here today.

Let us know how its working out by joining us on our weekly teleseminar / webcast training call Divorced Dad Weekly where we go into more depth on these concepts.

Listen to today's Divorced Dad Minute to learn how….come back often for new insights on how you can begin turning your situation around today.

Danny Guspie & Heidi Nabert
The Dynamic Divorce Duo

Need help?  Sign up for our free newsletter and report:
Divorce 101 - 7 Steps to Waging Peace
which can be found on the top of right hand side of the home page.