Action Guide #21 - Divorced Dad Weekly TeleSeminar - Sunday March 23/01

The following is not legal advice

Our topic for this Sunday's call is “The Divorced Dad Roadmap - The Basics - Part 1”. Tonight's call continues The Divorced Dad Roadmap training calls for 2008. The Divorced Dad Roadmap is a process in which you can begin your preparations and review your progress as you prepare for Family Court proceedings. We will continue with the process of analysis - asking ourselves a better set of questions designed to optimize our Court case and chances of success that deal with THE BASICS of navigating inside Family Court.

In the Divorced Dad Roadmap, we teach using a roadmap and compass as an analogy: The Divorced Dad picks a "Compass Heading", completing the steps then moving on to the next compass heading. This gives the divorced dad his own "ROADMAP" to follow to success in Family Court. At each "Compass Heading", the divorced dad has to answer a series of questions:

1) The main question first (MAIN QUESTION); then

2) The questions that support the main questions answer (SUPPORTING QUESTIONS); then

3) Finally, the divorced dad compares re-evaluates his first answer to the main question.

Has his answer to the MAIN QUESTION changes? If so why? What changed the answer?

This the process of analysis: Ask better questions to get better answers.

Here's the questions to ask yourself this week:

COMPASS HEADING # 1 - OFFENSIVE PLAN

Question 1 What is my Offensive Gameplan?

1. How do I constantly promote peace?

2. How can I change myself to be a credible peacemaker?

3. What is the “ULTIMATE BEST INTERESTS OF CHILDREN”?

COMPASS HEADING # 2 - DEFENSIVE PLAN

Question 2 What is my Defensive Gameplan?

1. What is my ex-wife’s most likely strategy?

2. What is my ex-wife’s most likely tactic?

3. How can I use “waging peace” to defuse her gameplan?

COMPASS HEADING # 3 - MINOR ERRORS

Question 3 What minor errors am I making?

1. What are my top three minor errors?

2. What can I do to change the error in my thinking?

3. What can I do to change the error in my reactions?

COMPASS HEADING # 4 - STUDY

Question 4 What should I study now?

1. What is my core strength?

2. How do I improve my core strength?

3. What area of study must I focus upon?

COMPASS HEADING # 5 - REHEARSE

Question 5 What do I need to rehearse most?

1. What am I rehearsing first, second and third?

2. What is my rehearsal schedule?

3. What tools do I have to evaluate my progress?

COMPASS HEADING # 6 - MEMORIZE

Question 6 What must I memorize first?

1. What must I memorize before I anything else?

2. What tools and aids do I have to memorize with?

3. What have I forgotten, or am most likely to forget?

COMPASS HEADING # 7 - IMPLEMENT

Question 7 What’s must I implement now?

1. What steps/actions must I implement today?

2. What shortcuts are available to implementation?

3. Am I measuring my speed of implementation?

By taking some time to reflect on better quality questions related to tactics and strategy, divorced dads can improve their chances of success in Family Court through optimization: Looking for the flaws in their case and improving upon them. You can't change others, but you can change yourself, and hence better position yourself for success.

The Divorced Dad Road Map: "The Basics" will teach you the skills you will need to successfully navigate through Family Court and its bureaucratic organization and administration. You will find that the teleseminar training call will help you to focus and gain clarity about your situation. Join us on the next TeleSeminarClick here:

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Danny Guspie & Heidi Nabert

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