Action Guide #20 - Divorced Dad Weekly TeleSeminar - Sunday March 16/08

The following is not legal advice

Our topic for this Sunday's call is “The Divorced Dad Roadmap - The Fundamentals”. Tonight's call continues The Divorced Dad Roadmap training calls for 2008. The Divorced Dad Roadmap is a process in which you can begin your preparations and review your progress as you prepare for Family Court proceedings. IF the first time you enter a Courtroom is for your first hearing, you just blew it - You've positioned yourself for a HUGE loss and a MISSED opportunity to WIN.

The Key is to have a process of analysis - ask yourself a better question to come up with a better answer. Preparation through asking yourself better quality questions is the FUNDAMENTAL key to all success in life.

Learning how any particular judge conducts proceedings in a Courtroom is FUNDAMENTAL to success when you are a divorced dad. Many divorced dads are completely oblivious to what is going on around them when they are in Family Court, because they have not taken the opportunity to ask themself some very basic questions like:

WINNING

Question 1 The Big Picture: What is Winning?

1. How do I put the kids first and adults second?

2. How can I change myself if I can’t change others?

3. What is “THE ULTIMATE BEST INTERESTS OF CHILDREN?”

THE GAMEPLAN

Question 2 Whose gameplan am I following?

1. What is my ex-wife’s gameplan?

3. What is my ex-wife most afraid of losing?

3. How can I use this in my gameplan?

KNOWING

Question 3 What do I really need to know?

1. Am I acting on my imagination or knowledge?

2. What do I need to know NOW?

3. What do I need to do to get that Knowledge?

STRATEGY

Question 4 What strategy will work best?

1. What is my definition of strategy?

2. Do I even have a strategy for any aspect of this matter?

3. What is my immediate strategy for my first problem?

TACTICS

Question 5 What Tactics have worked before?

1. What is my definition of tactics?

2. Do I even have a tactics for any aspect of this matter?

3. What is my immediate tactic for my first problem?

EXECUTION

Question 6 How do I follow through to win?

1. What must I do first before I do anything else?

2. What am I doing to prepare and intensify my focus?

3. What is my tactic and strategy when I’m unfocused?

ADJUSTING

Question 7 What is & how do I apply the lesson?

1. What really worked well in the situation?

2. What could I have done better in the situation?

3. How do I consolidate gains while making improvements?

By taking some time to reflect on better quaslity questions related to tactics and strategy, divorced dads can improve their chances of success in Family Court through optimization: Looking for the flaws in their case and improving upon them. You can't change others, but you can change yourself, and hence better position yourself for success.

The Divorced Dad Road Map: "The Courtroom" will teach you the skills you will need to successfully navigate through Family Court and its bureaucratic organization and administration. Join us on the next TeleSeminarClick here:

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Danny Guspie & Heidi Nabert

The Dynamic Divorce Duo

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