Action Guide #17 - Divorced Dad Weekly TeleSeminar - Sunday Feb. 3/08

The following is not legal advice

Our topic for this Sunday's call is “The Divorced Dad Roadmap - The Losing Hand”. Tonight's call continues The Divorced Dad Roadmap training calls for 2008. The Divorced Dad Roadmap is a process in which you can begin your preparations and review your progress as you prepare for Family Court proceedings.

Do you even recognize when you have THE LOSING HAND? Many divorced dads are completely oblivious to what is going on around them. They are either in denial or so self centered they are effectively blind to the realities around them. Others are plagued by what I call "The Hope against Hope Syndrome". These divorced dads bury their head in the sand hoping it will all go away, or that a better hand might be dealt.

They refuse to play the hand they are dealt, let alone see if they can improve upon it. Others play out the hand they are dealt simply because they are what is known as "The Patsy", someone who loses everything because they don't know the rules of the game, yet pretend that they do. The expert card player can spot these players a mile away.

It's the same in all life situations, including Family Court.

Using as a backdrop a story about "Alex", whose father took him for his first drink to "The Peeler Bar", we find this soon to be divorced dad in way over his head in a few months time, simply because he was in the wrong place at the wrong time and compounded that with being oblivious to who was there, and what he was saying…

Can you improve THE LOSING HAND? Absolutely. If you FOCUS on eliminating it as it manifests in your daily life. That's the hard part though - recognizing old habits and correcting oneself in the moment is the key. BUT it requires constant vigilance and effort. Sometimes it is hard to distinguish the WINNING HAND from THE LOSING HAND - Sometimes they are one and the same, depending entirely on perspective

Is your glass half empty or half full? Depends on what you as a person value and accentuate in the way you view the outside world, events and circumstances. It is the same way with THE LOSING HAND.

The Divorced Dad Road Map: "The Losing Hand" will teach you the skills you will need to successfully navigate through Family Court from finding the right lawyer, to how to conduct yourself in the many situations that will unfold during the Family Court process when it comes to "gamesmanship"

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Danny Guspie & Heidi Nabert

The Dynamic Divorce Duo

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