Podcast #7 - Divorced Dad Minute - What Is Your Family Court Game Plan?

The following is not legal advice

 

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In order for a divorced dad to even be in a position protect his child's rights to have a relationship with their father, divorced dads must have a plan that is based upon what has worked for fathers thus far when they have found themselves before a Family Court Judge.

Without a game plan there is no chance to properly exercise a fathers rights during custody, access, and child support hearings which take place in Family Court.

So the BIG question is: Do you have a Family Court Game Plan?

Ask yourself: Have you been to the courthouse?  Do you even know what it is?  Have you gone inside?  Have you visited with the clerks?  Do you know who's a good clerk, a bad clerk?  Have you gone and observed the judges during motion hearings?

Learn absolutely everything about your Family Court and how it operates. That's what successful divorced dads do.
 
You've got to be prepared.  If you don't know where you're at and if you don't know where you're going, how can you possibly have a plan? Watch, learn, ask questions, prepare, execute, test, measure the results of your Family Court Game Plan.
 
You must incorporate planning, testing, observing and correcting to remain on target to achieving your heart's desire: A favorable family Court order. These are the skills required to be able to focus like a laser beam on your desired outcome.

You must also know that parts of your plan will fail. You must be ready, willing and able to see that which is failing in your divorce management plan and jettison it immediately.

Do more of what works, and lose that which does not.

Fathers who have no idea where they want to go, what their outcome is, what kind of goals they have are going to lose LARGE in Family Court when it comes to attending custody, access, and child support hearings.

That's due to a lack of preparation and sometimes the root causes are the divorced dad is overwhelmed, and totally confused.  These fathers have no accurate roadmap.  No plan whatsoever.

And as a result, they often waver back and forth, indecisively, unable to sort out what is best to do.

These divorced dads are acting like they haven't got a clue, because those are the facts - they are totally unprepared. They have not done their homework, research nor performed any reconnaissance to scope out what they will be facing in Family Court.
 
Many divorced dads really get their butts kicked in Family Court simply because they couldn't make a decision, because they are on that emotional roller coaster, and are finding it incredibly difficult to make the necessary decisions that lead to success.
 
That's a decision in itself.
 
The best thing you can do is download our Free Report: Divorce 101: 7 Steps to Waging Peace in Family Court, and to join us on our weekly calls at DivorcedDadWeekly.com

You can also listen to today's Divorced Dad Minute to learn how to turn your situation around from a losing proposition, into a winning one….come back often for new insights on how you can begin turning your situation around today.

Danny Guspie & Heidi Nabert
The Dynamic Divorce Duo